The Law of Attraction

Identify what I don't want.

Identify what I do want.

Get into the feeling place of what I want.

Expect it.

-Lynn Grabhorn

and many others

Here is the thing: I have to be willing to accept that which I don't want. I have to be okay with the "people, place, thing, or situation" as being exactly what it is or else all I am doing is wanting from a place of not wanting what is. There is no way around it. I can know what I don't want. I can want. But I can only be in the feeling place of what I want when I have fully accepted to being okay with what I don't want - which neutralizes it and makes space for wanting.

I have heard of there being the need for the polarity of want vs. don't want. I have heard of the need for polarity in all of the Universe. But my mind creates this idea of this vs. that and me vs. you and good vs. evil and like vs. dislike. My mind has decided these things for me. When I recognize those things exist only in my mind, then what? Then I can focus on what I want? Then I can focus on the "positive?" But then "positive" no longer exists. So, what is left?

A quiet mind is all. How nice would that be?

Copyright by Rachel Drews, 2011. All rights reserved. Any excerpts reproduced from this article should include links to the original.